Gielow-Alan J. of Darien Center, NY passed away July 28, 2026.  Beloved husband of 40 years to Tammy Gielow; dear father of Casey (Wayne) Croff and Cassidy (Katrina) Gielow; loving grandfather of Mason, Harper and Zoey; brother of Walter (CC), Martin, Scott and Steven Gielow; brother-in-law of Tresea Gee, Robert (Lynn) Surman and the late Tina Surman; also survived by many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.  Family will be present to receive friends at the CHARLES MEYER FUNERAL HOME, 13228 Broadway Alden, NY on Friday, July 31st from 3-6 PM. followed by a gathering at the home of Alan and Tammy.  Flowers gratefully declined.  Share your condolences at meyerfuneralhome.com