Haines- Gary W. of Alden, NY, passed away on October 16, 2026, at the age of 64.  He is predeceased by his father Roger Haines, mother Carol (nee Meussling) Haines, stepmother Mickie Haines and his brother Michael Meussling; Gary is survived by his life partner Kim Gianni; his son Nicholas Haines; grandson Trevor Kalisz; brothers Todd (Jennifer) Haines and Greg Haines.  He is also survived by cousins, nieces and nephews.  Family will be present at the CHARLES MEYER FUNERAL HOME, 13228 Broadway Alden, NY on Friday October 23, 2026 from 4 - 7 PM.  Share your condolences at meyerfuneralhome.com