O'Connor-Thomas K. Jr. Of Alden, N.Y. May 17, 2023. Beloved husband of Sylvia Salczynski-O'Connor; dear father of Shannon (Marleen) and Colleen; also survived by grandchildren and many friends; brother of Barbara O'Connor.  No prior visitation.  A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.  Arrangements by the Charles Meyer Funeral Home.  Share your condolences at meyerfuneralhome.com.