Say-Wendy C. (nee Ruhlman) of Alexander, NY passed away November 2, 2026.  Beloved husband of Charles L. Say Jr.; dear mother of Candice Wells and Dustin (Megan Shields) Say; step-mother of Theodore and Amanda Say; Mimi to Madison (Ted), Mason, Mackenzie, Kameron, Tucker, Piper, Charles and Cadence; great-Mimi to Jordan; sister of Laurie (David) Geil, Richard (Sophie) Gibbs and the late Leonard "Lenny" Ruhlman; daughter of the late Richard and Donna Gibbs; daughter-in-law of Charles and Glenna Say; Aunt of Billy (Dana), Kevin (Jennifer), Savannah, Ricky and Tori (Ben); Aunt Dolly to Evva and Cyrus.  Family will be present to receive friends at the CHARLES MEYER FUNERAL HOME, 13228 Broadway Alden, NY on Saturday, November 7th from 11-1 PM. followed by a funeral service at 1 PM.  Share your condolences at meyerfuneralhome.com